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The Versalie Ambassadors' Menopause Self-Care Tips

By Christina Hanna, MPH, CHES • Published 02/24/2025

Many people are uncertain about what to expect and how to cope during the menopause transition. And there’s no one right answer. You might choose to go to a healthcare provider and discuss menopause hormone therapy, or you may want to start with making some lifestyle changes. No matter what approach you take, menopause self-care can be a tool that’s always available. 

Our Versalie Ambassadors share practical tips for taking a holistic approach to menopause self-care. Whether you’re just starting to experience perimenopause symptoms or are further along in your journey, we want you to find what can work for you. 

What is self-care? 

The media might have you believe that self-care is getting a pedicure and a massage. While that can be part of it, it’s really anything you do to look after your own health. Your self-care can look how you want it to. It starts with learning what it means to take care of yourself and how to get the information to help you do that.   

"My “balanced life” is more important to me now than anything. Sometimes an evening on the sofa is more beneficial to me than going out to dinner with friends." Tevia, 45
 

There are many different ways to take care of yourself, but remember you don’t need to (and shouldn’t) do them all at once. Choose an area that’s top of mind and start with that. The different areas of self-care include: 

  • Physical, to take care of your body.
  • Mental, to help your mind stay sharp and healthy.
  • Emotional, to build skills to cope with difficult emotions.
  • Social, to nurture relationships with others.
  • Spiritual, to foster your sense of purpose and meaning in life.

6 tips for managing menopause symptoms 

Here are 6 practical tips to help you navigate this phase with greater ease and confidence. 

Tip #1 Maintain a nutritious diet  

A balanced diet can help with many changes and symptoms during perimenopause like heart health, bone health, mood, energy, weight management, and inflammation. The foundations of a balanced menopause diet include plenty of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins, and healthy fats. Certain nutrients, like calcium, vitamin D, and omega-3 fatty acids can support bone health, heart health, and inflammation.   

"Food has a lot to do with how I feel mentally, emotionally, physically. I’ve stepped back from how I used to eat. I try to eat more fruits and vegetables and non-processed foods. I gave up dairy not too long ago." Cristina, 45

"I hate the word diet. I just tried to be mindful of what I eat. I am the queen of everything in moderation." Jessie, 50
 

"When I eat better, I definitely sleep better, feel better. Everything is better." Wanda, 55
 

Talk to your healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet or exercise routine. 

Tip # 2 Engage in regular physical activity 

During menopause, exercise can improve your overall well-being. Try to do a mix of aerobic exercises, strength training, and flexibility workouts like yoga or Pilates. Regular exercise can also help with weight management, stress, energy, mood, bone health, heart health, and managing hot flashes and night sweats.  

“Walking seems to help a lot. I like walking because I’m out in nature and get to see animals, critters, and flowers.” Christina, 53

“I try to do more cardio and do workouts with weights 4 days a week. And I try to walk when it's nice outside, like 3 miles a day.” Stacy, 48

“I also try to exercise. It especially helps me manage my anxiety and helps me sleep better.” Cristina, 45

“I find time to walk. I've got to do something every day. Whether it's walking, or this summer was amazing. I hiked, swam, and played tennis.” Jessie, 50

Tip #3 Find stress management techniques that work for you 

Stress management is important for coping with the emotional challenges of menopause. Techniques like mindfulness, meditation, deep breathing, and journaling can help you feel calm and clear-headed. They can also help with anxiety and mood swings.  

“I've always loved reading, but I do it differently now. It's like a whole ceremony. I'll light my candle, make sure the AC is super comfortable, wear comfy clothes, and then I'll lay in the bed to read. It's a whole experience.” Wanda, 55

“I know when I start to get overwhelmed with stress and my body starts to go haywire. I know when it’s time for me to slow down and start to implement more “self-care” into my schedule.” Tevia, 45

“I did some counseling, and I feel like that helped.” Dawn, 53

“I get up in the morning and I have my quiet time. I listen to different inspirational people, I listen to pastors, anything that's going to give me a good word. I want to start my day a certain way.” Alicia, 51

Tip #4 Get into a good sleep routine 

Menopause can interrupt your sleep patterns, leaving you feeling fatigued and irritable. Establishing a consistent sleep routine, creating a relaxing bedtime ritual, and ensuring a cool, dark sleeping environment can help improve the quality of your sleep. 

“I try to go to bed at the same time every day, created a bedtime routine. I don’t do anything in my bedroom except sleep. I had to make a lot of changes because I used to love falling asleep watching the TV and then that wasn’t working. I would be up all night.” Wanda, 55
 

“I have to do certain things before bed to unwind and relax so I can get some sleep. Because I don't sleep like I used to. I have trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, and waking up in the middle of the night.” Cristina, 43

Talk to your healthcare provider if you have concerns about your sleep. 

Tip #5 Don’t underestimate the power of community 

Building a support network of friends, family, or others who are going through menopause can provide valuable emotional support. Sharing tips and experiences can make the journey feel less isolating and provide a sense of camaraderie. 

“We need to join together to support each other through this stage in life and learn from each other.” Cristina, 45

“You are not alone, and you don't have to go through this alone.” Alicia, 51

“As my friends and I have gotten into our 40s and 50s, we talk about it and that’s always been nice hearing what my friends are going through. It kind of brought us closer because we can talk about this weird thing happening to our bodies. I’m not alone in this!” Tula, 47

“I speak with my friends that I know are having symptoms like me. With my friends, it’s just like regular girl talk.” Sandra, 50
 

“With my friends, I feel like it’s brought us closer. I’ve been more open talking about it, so it’s brought us closer to share our thoughts and feelings about it and compare stories.” Dawn, 53

Tip #6 Consult healthcare professionals for personalized treatment options 

Every person’s experience with menopause is unique, and a tailored approach can help address specific symptoms more effectively. Regular check-ups and open communication with your healthcare provider can ensure you receive the best care possible during this phase. 

A holistic approach to perimenopause and menopause emphasizes the importance of addressing not just the physical symptoms but also emotional and mental health, providing a comprehensive menopause solution that supports overall well-being during this transformative time.   

Last Updated 02/24/2025

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